intertwingly

There's a discussion going on where the participants are linking to me. I can't help but feel that they are trying to draw me into a discussion that I don't want to be a part of.

I said what I want to say on the subject here. To expand upon this slightly, among other things, the first two words say that it is possible to subscribe to a mailing list without feeling like you personally have to respond to every post. The third word gives clues as to when to ignore the advice of the first two.